Friday, November 5, 2010

sharing is caring or silence is golden???


sharing is caring
but
silence is golden

which one u prefer?for me,certain things we can share but certain things we cant..
ape yg kite blh share n ape yg kite xleh share?tepuk dada tnye hati msing2...:-)
n,ape yg akn korg buat kalau korg ade problem?cth,kalau de family prob ke,finance prob ke,gaduh ngn kwn ke,de mslh dlm stdy,mlsh stuck in research ke,ape yg korg buat???korg share ngn sume org or share ngn certain people or korg pendam2 je???well, ade baik buruk nye kalau kite share n ade baik buruk jgk kalau kite pendam...kalau korg pilih utk share mslh korg dgn someone, sape yg korg rs : "he/she is suitable person"...kalau tnye fiza, i have several people...org yg btul2 fiza selesa, ade 2 org je..why i choose them?ade la beberapa criteria kenape fiza selesa nk share ngn 2 org ni..fiza nk citer criteria salah seorg dr mereka je..xnk citer due2..y?i have my own reason..:-) ok..fiza pggil die kak N..y?of coz la sbb dia tua dr fiza,sbb tu pggil die kak..:-) kenape fiza selesa utk share ngn die???

* insyaAllah, beliau boleh dipercayai
* mgkin sbb sama pompuan, so i can share with her
* paling pnting, beliau seorg pendengar yg sgt baik...a good listener...
* she unbias..mknenye,die x memihak mana2 pihak...
* beliau blh bg respon yg sgt baik...
* beliau akan tlg selesaikan mslh yg fiza hadapi tu dgn cara yg baik
* mgkin jgk sbb dia tua dr fiza, org ckp,mkn garam dulu la kan?so, she knows how to solve my problem..n she knows better...
* byk la sbb kenapa fiza ske share problem ngn kak N..tp of coz la,xsume..certain problem only la..kalau mslh research, xkn nk tnye die jgk kn????yg tu kne jmpe supervisor la...

so,kite kne pndai pilih org utk share..xblh main redah je..kalau slh pilih org, mgkin mslh kite tu akn jd lg teruk..

p/s : ms skolah dulu, berminat nk jd kaunselor..i love to share others problem n i like to help them to solve their problem...so, sape2 yg de mslh meh jumpe kaunselor fiza..:-) tp kaunselor yg xbertauliah la..:-)

p/s num 2 : thanks to kak N n my half coz sudi jd pndgar yg sgt baik utk fiza...:-)

p/s num 3 : but sometimes, i rather choose "silence is golden" phrase rather than "sharing is caring".

conclusion :u choose what is d best 4 u..

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